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There are so many ways to be a good friend/ partner/ girlfriend/ boyfriend/ significant other and they vary by person, place, and time. Below is a list of some of the ways you can be a good friend. This list is meant to be non-exhaustive and a starting point to help you brainstorm for yourself what kind of friend/ partner/ girlfriend/ boyfriend/ significant other you want to be.

Empathetic
  • You listen carefully to understand what the other person is experiencing
  • You feel with them
Kind
  • You treat the other person with respect and generosity
Accountable
  • You acknowledge when you make a mistake, apologize, and take action so you don’t repeat that mistake again
Reliable
  • You follow-through on what you say you are going to do
  • You show up when you say you are going to show up
  • The other person can count on you
Trustworthy
  • You don’t share information about them with anyone else without their explicit permission
  • They can feel comfortable sharing their whole selves with you without fear of judgement
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Being a Good Friend/ Partner/ Girlfriend/ Boyfriend/ Significant Other

Toolkits & Infosheets

Documentation to help campus staff and students with mental health issues.